Women's Rights has an extremely long way to go on some very basic details

I violated MY privacy to leave that health notice. And then I was BANNED for stating the truth the entire forum knew about this mod abusing his position of power to pick up women. 

I don't think I even mentioned his SHIT behavior where he publicly pissed on me about IF a condom mattered so much, SHE could have supplied it. 

When he said that to me, I was probably talking about my sister-in-law getting pregnant again by her shitty alcoholic boyfriend while sleeping on the couch at a friend's home because she was effectively homeless. 

Couch surfing like that makes you part of the hidden homeless. Being out in the streets isn't the only form of homelessness.  It's not even the most common.

Yes, welfare moms who can't feed their kids should spend their nonexistent funds on condoms so when some jackass pressures her into sex again...

He probably essentially raped her, tbh. He probably felt like her permission wasn't required since they had two kids together, so he could just TAKE what he wanted. 

So IF she HAD been prepared with a condom at hand, it probably wouldn't have gotten used. There was a court case where some jackass judge decided that the victim talking her rapist into putting on a condom because AIDS exists constituted consent on her part. 

Oy vey.

It was an all around pukeworthy comment for a long list of reasons. I was APPALLED this  forum of supposedly high minded, enlightened blah blah blah Good People (TM) weren't outraged and didn't want his head on a platter for making the comment even without knowing the subtext that he had spent the night with me and failed to supply a condom and I didn't want to see him again because of it etc.

I didn't see any point in telling the mods about that aspect of it because the comment was so "Holy hell! Do what????????" on the face of it that I felt like adding that detail would be like complaining to the inquisitioner at the Spanish Inquisition that today is not a good day to torture me because I already have a hang nail.

I was like "Well, this is a CESSPIT. No point in trying to sort my problems with the forum owner. Cyburbia is a lost cause. WOW. I can't believe this shit is happening."

And I don't think it was too much later I just stopped showing up without saying "goodbye" or in any way announcing my departure. 

Based on being BANNED for violating MY privacy to try to notify the asshole to get checked, something I didn't at all have to do because no one would have ever gone "Wait a minute. You're sick and spent the night with him. Shouldn't you tell him what you're infected with???", I'm going to say "Good Call! Nailed it!"

He knew I was sick. Me being sick is WHY I told him to supply a condom.

Him and all other morons on planet Earth: "I don't need a condom because she has a GENETIC DISORDER,  so I can't catch that!"

A thing I've already bitched about previously elsewhere:

I've had enough of men with college degrees and serious, respectable professions who brag to me what high IQs they have and all this SHIT failing to follow the simple instruction that "I have a deadly condition and doctors have FAILED to ID my ANTIBIOTIC RESISTANT infection. A CONDOM is a NECESSITY for medical reasons."

No, these fools are like "She has a GENETIC DISORDER. I can't catch that. I'm GOOD, yo! LA LA LA NOT LISTENING."

1. You aren't "good."

2. Even if you WERE, that's callous disregard for MY welfare, you sorry bastard.

So go NOT LISTEN with some other idiot. I ain't getting jiggy with you.

Once is chance, twice is coincidence, and three times is a pattern. This asshole was the third guy in a row to pull this shit on me.

I swore off casual sex. I've been celibate for over twenty years. 

He was the last dirtbag I had casual sex with. I'm on track to be celibate until the day I die because most men are TURDS who can't be arsed to so much as supply a condom when told it's a necessity for medical reasons as I have a life-threatening situation. 

Frankly, there aren't ENOUGH incels -- involuntarily celibate men -- if this shit is the NORM for how the best of the best of the best, sir! treat women. And if these college educated etc. men I was hooking up with are the cream of the crop and AVERAGE behavior is worse, celibacy has prevented me from doing 25 to life while bitching the entire time "It was self defense, you misogynistic turd of a judge!!!!"