Short and Sweet
I got to know one of Tom's friends somewhat well. Whereas Tom was fourteen years older than me, his friend was something like eight years younger.
This young man was simply FASCINATED by the women Tom picked.
One day, I told him "You have that backwards. Tom doesn't PICK hot women. His women are hot because they are TOM'S.
He's good to his women. He will marry you if you get knocked up by him, so it's safe to let your hair down with him."
Last I heard, this fly young man was married within a few months of our relationship ending.